Become the change you desire
What was the last thing you tried to change in your life? How well did it work? Did it have a lasting effect?
Did you say, “I want to lose ten pounds. I must go on a diet.”
Or, “I want to be productive. I better start working hard.”
Or, “I want to be rich. I need to a better job and to start saving.”
These three have something in common: they require you to force yourself to change behaviors to achieve your goal. They reinforce that you are not what you desire:
- you are overweight (or why would you need a diet?)
- you are unproductive (or why demand the extra effort?)
- you are lacking money (or why would you need more?)
Attempts to change behaviors usually fail. Why? Because they aren’t in line with your belief systems about who you are.
Instead, become the change you desire. Imagine it. Start acting like it. Your behaviors will naturally reflect yourself and bring you goal to you effortlessly.
Effortlessly does not mean without work or action. It means you stop forcing yourself to be something you are not.